Sometimes you ask for advice because you really truly are at a loss and don’t know what to do. Sometimes you ask for advice because you know what it is you have to do, what the right call is, but you’re torn between your head and your heart or your gut and your heart or whatever, and you just need to hear the same words you’ve been saying to yourself come out of someone else’s mouth because then that makes it real.
And either you listen to that advice, and go with what you knew was the right call all along, or you ignore it and just go the other way. But no matter what you decide, who you end up listening to, own it. You made the call. Hold yourself accountable for your own decisions, actions, thoughts, and feelings. Own it. Own everything.